This is the Most Essential Leadership Skill of the 21st century

𝐂𝐨𝐦𝐩𝐨𝐬𝐮𝐫𝐞. 

The further you go in leadership, the more important it becomes to master soft skills rather than technical skills.

Composure is a paradigm-shifting skill. It’s a state of being calm and in control of oneself, maintaining steadiness, especially in complex and challenging situations.

It’s about acting with thoughtfulness – instead of reacting.

Leaders who act with composure know that:

✓  Inner calm gives the advantage of a sharper mind, a broader perspective and better decision-making.

✓  Their most important asset is their internal state, their inner power – and they do not give others permission to diminish it.

✓  Sometimes, it’s okay to lose battles to win the war.

Leadership Skill: Composure

To practice composure starts with a moment of awareness. When you feel yourself spiralling, ask yourself.

Where am I?

You are either above or below the line at any point.

Above the line means conscious leadership with openness, curiosity and a commitment to learning. Below the line means closed, defensive and committed to being right.

In today’s complex world, it’s common to find ourselves and others below the line.

Awareness of where you are in moments of stress gives you the ability to shift from reacting to acting intentionally. The more chaotic your environment becomes, the more you need to practice composure.

Thanks to Jim Dethmer for introducing me to this simple yet powerful model.

What if one weekly question can change the way you lead and shape your career?

Each week, I share insights and prompts to help you step back, gain clarity, and lead yourself (and others) with intention, not just reaction.